Pat McCloskey, OFM

When and how did the College of Cardinals come into existence? How long has this group been responsible for electing the pope?

I know that some Carmelites are referred to as “discalced,” meaning that they don’t wear shoes. Is this some form of mortification?

A Protestant relative says that we must always give 10 percent even if that means not paying certain bills. I do not agree.

What are the requirements for being a godparent? Do both godparents have to be Catholic? Must there be a man and a woman? Can godparents be changed later if the first ones turn out not to be very good role models?

I have trouble placing mortification in perspective. I have heard that St. Josemaría Escrivá de Balaguer advised, “Choose mortifications that don’t mortify others.” What does that mean?