Ask a Franciscan
Forgive an Adulterous Husband?
Pat McCloskey, OFM
September 16, 2026
Is it wrong to divorce a husband who commits adultery? My husband and I were married in the Catholic Church almost 30 years ago. Several years ago he committed adultery, and the pain still remains with me. I have tried to forgive him but long for something much more important: healing.
No, a civil divorce is an option. Depending on evidence provided, a canonical “declaration of nullity ” may also be possible.
St. Francis and His Time with the Sultan
Pat McCloskey, OFM
September 15, 2026
How did St. Francis of Assisi and Sultan Malik al-Kamil become friends?
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College of Cardinals
Pat McCloskey, OFM
September 11, 2026
When and how did the College of Cardinals come into existence? How long has this group been responsible for electing the pope?
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Why Go Barefoot?
Pat McCloskey, OFM
September 10, 2026
I know that some Carmelites are referred to as “discalced,” meaning that they don’t wear shoes. Is this some form of mortification?
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How to Count Tithing
Pat McCloskey, OFM
September 9, 2026
A Protestant relative says that we must always give 10 percent even if that means not paying certain bills. I do not agree.
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What Is Required of Godparents?
Pat McCloskey, OFM
September 8, 2026
What are the requirements for being a godparent? Do both godparents have to be Catholic? Must there be a man and a woman? Can godparents be changed later if the first ones turn out not to be very good role ...
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Why Mortify Myself?
Pat McCloskey, OFM
September 7, 2026
I have trouble placing mortification in perspective. I have heard that St. Josemaría Escrivá de Balaguer advised, "Choose mortifications that don't mortify others." What does that mean?
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