Reflect
Whenever we have serious conflict in our relationships with family, friends, or coworkers, it’s tempting to demonize the other person or even sever the relationship. Even in the best relationships, however, there are moments of rupture. The messy work of love and redemption is to find ways to heal, repair, and deepen our connections with each other.
Pray
Lord,
We know that death and resurrection
are the pattern of all things that matter.
In moments when we are angry, hurt, or estranged,
may we have the strength to be vulnerable,
to soften rather than harden our hearts.
Give us the grace we need to give grace to others,
so our love and care can lead to new life and deeper love.
Act
When you have gotten sideways with someone you love, don’t expect them to make the first move toward reconciliation—even if you think the conflict is their fault. Without papering over hard things, find a way to tell and show them that you value the relationship and are willing to find ways to come back together. Unless there is abuse, try never to close the door on the possibility for a renewed relationship.
